Selasa, 23 Agustus 2011

Clearing Unconscious and Limiting Beliefs - 3 Steps That Can Change Your Life



Let's face it, for most of us change is not easy. Even when you know change is necessary and will benefit us in the end, they often hold outdated and unhealthy structure in our lives, not take a leap into the great unknown. Even if something in our lives is to upgrade or overhaul, we resist with everything we got.

Why the change is so frightening? Because we have to let a part of us that is attached to the old way to get to something new to emerge. Regardless of how it does not work for us, it is known and we can not imagine who would be without him.

Imagine it this way. Do you have a living room full of ratty old namjeĊĦtaja.Soba was pretty crowded and often bump into tables and chairs as you try to navigate your way across the room. For the most part, though, you know where everything is and know how to steer a clear path through the mess.

Now imagine that someone comes along and says that life would be much easier if I could just get rid of that ratty old overstuffed chair that takes up so much space in the middle of the room. You can see the logic in what you say, but it feels like getting rid of the chair will leave a huge gaping hole and the living room just would not feel the same. Maybe even really want to get rid of the chair, but thought it went really can be intimidating, even paralyzing.

Our identity as it is the living room. All of us are many, many unconscious beliefs, assumptions, habits or behaviors that we move every day. We do not really know where we picked them all up, but they have become so much part of who we are that they do not see them until our Bang shin on one of them. Even then, we are reluctant to release them because it feels like something then our identity will go as well.

The most important thing to remember is that all these pieces of furniture in the room is not it! Think of them as representing information that is programmed into your subconscious memory. They can be very persistent, but not necessarily permanent.

Here is an exercise that uses the 3 easy steps will help you begin to clear your negative and limiting beliefs. Do this exercise where you sit or lie quietly without a little disturbed.

1 Identify limiting or negative belief you want to get rid of. This step is often very easy. Most of us have that inner critic is very loud. You know, bands that run in your head and tell you that you're not good enough, smart enough or loveable enough. All you need do is tune into when one of the tape is running and listening to what he says. Write a negative or limiting beliefs down on a piece of paper.

2 Stop resistance beliefs. This step can be a little harder. Usually what happens when we come to the negative or limiting belief is that we try to push the thoughts away, to convince myself that it is not true, or drown out the distractions - anything, so we do not have to feel and acknowledge it.

For the next few minutes, though, try something else. Instead of pushing away the conviction, allow yourself just to sit with him. If you prefer, you can say that, "I accept that I have confidence that ______________________________." It does not say a belief is true, it simply states the truth that the belief is there for you. This May seem counter-intuitive, but it is actually a resistance that keeps the entrenched belief. Recognizing and accepting that there is a belief takes away some of their power.

Then just notice what happens. Notice how you feel, notice your body feels, notice how feelings change as you sit with them.

3 Some furniture pieces and dissolve it. Now imagine living room with overstuffed chairs in the middle - a negative or limiting beliefs you've identified. Just a few minutes to allow the chair to disappear from the middle of the room. Do not worry, it need not be gone forever. If you really want to have a back room at the end of this exercise can be.

For now, however, just let them experiment with what it would feel like it was gone. What room would feel like? Imagine what it would be like to walk across the room without bumping into the furniture piece. Surrender yourself to imagine how the rest of the furniture in the room can be reordered.

Take as much as you want and when you are ready, slowly bring the awareness back to the room and open your eyes.

Think about the faith. Do you feel differently about it? Do you feel like you have some distance from him? Does it feel less emotionally charged?

If so, then congratulations, have already begun the process of getting overstuffed chairs in the room. If not, try to exercise several times later. But in any case, pay attention to the next few days, how often and how loud you play the tape in the head. You can repeat this exercise every day if you are useful. Eventually you should find that the tape less often and so loudly. You May even find one day that when your faith comes to thinking how stupid it sounds.

This simple act of recognizing and accepting what is instead of the resistance can be more powerful than you can imagine. Try it and see how easily you can start to get rid of clutter and how life can be better without it.

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